An Encouraging Word…

We all need them, don’t we, encouraging words! I wonder how many people have led fulfilled lives without them. I suspect none. I wonder how many people have gone on to affect the lives of many others for good without encouragement. I wonder how many people have gone on to greatness without the encouragement to not give up, to stay the course. Again, I suspect none.

In pondering this, a scene passed before me in my mind. It was of people who had accomplished great things coming before God to receive their reward. Each person was not alone. Some had many people with them. Some had one or two. When the time came to ‘enter the gates’ it was the people accompanying the seemingly more important person that entered the gates first; the person who had accomplished much came behind. While yet on earth it was the person who had accomplished much who was seen, talked about and even praised. Unseen were these other ones. Who are these unseen? Yes, you may have guessed, these are the ones who came alongside, who encouraged and may have given wise advice so that the person did not give up but stayed the course to complete the work that was required. You see the work could not have been completed without the encouragement given by these precious unseen. Their reward was very great. (This is an analogy only. We are saved by grace only, not of works)

As Christians we know that any good work we are in the process of carrying out comes with opposition. Often much opposition, which can lead to great discouragement, is thrown at the person before the ‘good work’ even gets started. The battle is often fought in the mind. This is why encouragement is so powerful.

Are you an encourager? It doesn’t take much, you know. A friendly smile sometimes will do.

Have you been praying for someone lately? Why not let that person know. Send them a little note. The words you say may sometimes seem insignificant to you, but have a far-reaching effect on the recipient.

Maybe someone needs a visit, just so you can listen to them pour out their heart – then offer to pray for them (and do it, of course).

Maybe God has given you a word for someone. Give the word – don’t hold on to it. Again it may seem so simple and insignificant to you, but may be life changing to the one who receives it.

We will not always be aware that we have been used of God to encourage someone. Don’t let that discourage you from offering encouragement to others by words or deeds any time the occasion rises.  

I believe all of us face times in our lives when we need to know that we are not alone, that someone has been thinking about us, has lifted a prayer for us. I have recently been on the receiving end of desperately needed encouragement. I am so grateful for the dear people God put on my path recently who ministered life to me. I was awed and amazed by a few words that a friend sent to me just today. It had a profound effect on me. It is also what led me to ponder on the need for encouragement and to share my thoughts with you dear reader. God knows we all have this need, and He provides it wonderfully!

All the glory goes to God doesn’t it, for all of our accomplishments! We cannot take credit for ourselves. God is the One who provides the way and the means, and the encouragement along the way to get things done.

2 Corinthians 1: 3-4 (Amplified Bible)

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of sympathy (pity and mercy) and the God [Who is the Source] of every comfort (consolation and encouragement), who comforts (consoles and encourages) us in every trouble (calamity and affliction), so that we may also be able to comfort (console and encourage) those who are in any kind of trouble or distress, with the comfort (consolation and encouragement) with which we ourselves are comforted (consoled and encouraged) by God.

Maybe you are the one who needs encouragement right now. Don’t throw in the towel yet my friend. God sees you. You are not hidden from Him. He is working on your behalf. Lean on Him. He will not fail you!!! God is faithful, always and forever good!!!

The Web...

As I sat in the gazebo on the back deck this morning I noticed it – the web. It was an amazing structure, so intricately and perfectly spun. It had been painstakingly spun for one purpose, one purpose only – to trap the unsuspecting prey. And there in the middle of the web sat the master spinner, not moving. The trap had been set, now all that was needed was to wait. For you see the web was nearly invisible and surely an intended victim would be caught. Once caught the prey would be wrapped tighter and tighter in a cocoon of silk. There would be no escape.

This made me think of another master spinner, one who painstakingly weaves and spins his web of lies and deceit. He also carefully sets his net and waits for the intended prey to be trapped. His goal is to steal, kill and destroy.

How does he spin his web? Depending on the intended victim he spins different types of threads. One type is the temptation to sin, “it’s okay; it’s no big deal; no one is watching; it’s not really wrong; everyone is doing it” etc., etc., and once the sin is given into then he spins thoughts of guilt and condemnation leading to despair and the victim is wrapped tighter and tighter.

Other threads of deadly silk he spins are thoughts of discouragement, “you’re a failure; is this all you have to show for your life; things will never get better; nobody wants you; you’re alone and nobody cares; things will never change” etc., etc… and on and on. He will take advantage of any circumstance to set his trap. He’ll spin and spin and then wait patiently ready to pounce and wrap the prey in a cocoon of hopelessness and despondency.

But, as I looked at that web this morning, I noticed something else – a ray of sunshine that poured over a part of it. Ahhh… Where the sun shone on it, the web was clearly visible, the shining silk strands shouting “It’s a trap!!!! Fly Away!!!” And there my friends is the Goodness of God! Yes the Lord surely surrounds us with songs of deliverance (Ps 32:7). “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble” (Ps 46:1). “Be still and know that I am God” (Ps 46:10). If you are at the point that you think your heart will break because of the onslaught of thoughts that constantly bombard your mind; if you are longing for just one friend or loved one to whom you can pour out your innermost thoughts; if you have been losing hope, and sight of your dreams then there is only one place to go, the best place to go – to the One who sees, the One who hears – the One who knows you and loves you, the one who can and will deliver you and renew in you the joy of your salvation – to God alone! Don’t let yourself be bound in the silk threads any longer. There is an escape! Go to the One who has the power to deliver you – Jesus!

Interestingly enough as I was thinking about all of these things as I studied that spider web this morning I came across these verses from Psalm 62

Truly my soul silently waits for God;

From Him comes my salvation.

He only is my rock and my salvation;

He is my defense;

I shall not be moved…

My soul, wait silently for God alone,

For my expectation is from Him,

He only is my rock and my salvation;

I shall not be moved.

In God is my salvation and my glory;

The rock of my strength,

And my refuge, is in God.

Trust Him at all times, you people;

Pour out your heart before Him;

God is a refuge for us.

Yes, there is an escape from the web. Go to God alone and ask Him to help you find your way back to the hope and to the dream He placed within your heart. Go to God first. Talk to Him. Read His word. Don’t give up. As you draw close to Him, walking in the light, you will recognize the threads the enemy is weaving, the traps he is setting. God’s light will reveal them. Strength will come. Hope will be renewed. Joy will return – the joy of your salvation. Selah.

Oh, so it’s not all going to be easy…

...You want us to persevere.

Following is a note that our choir director, Tania DeVito Roberts, sent out to the members of our ladies ensemble (of which I am a part). I’ve asked her permission to post her message here on my blog. So here it is. After reading it you will understand why I felt this was a message that needed to go beyond our little group. 

“Why do we think that when God tells us to do something, if it doesn’t fall into place neatly, we must have heard wrong? We seem to think that we are excused for giving up when we meet obstacles because if it is God’s will, He will “open the door”. We even tell Him we’ll just follow the path of least resistance, and that’s how we’ll recognize the way He has laid out for us.

But…Jesus is our perfect example and that is not how things went for Him. When He was faced with the important task of choosing the 12 men who would spend 3 ½ years with Him and to whom He would then entrust with building His Church after He left, He did not look up to heaven and say “OK, Father, I am open to whatever You decide. You bring me the guys You want me to choose and I will accept whomever You bring to me. I’ll take the first 12 that come along, and I’m trusting that You will send them my way.” He didn’t do that. He spent 40 days starving and praying in the desert, culminating in face-to-face confrontation with the devil. That wasn’t easy. Gethsemane wasn’t easy. The day of His crucifixion wasn’t easy. But it was exactly what God wanted Him to do.

Why do we think things should be different for us? Jesus knew God’s heart and He knew God’s will, and He set His face like a flint and walked forward until the whole mission was complete. He met with many obstacles and was misunderstood by just about everyone, but He persevered because He knew God’s word and He believed it.

It wasn’t easy for Noah to keep building a massive boat in the desert for 100 years, and he also was misunderstood by everyone around him. Why did he keep going? Because he had heard from the Lord, and he knew it, not because all the circumstances just seemed to work out that way, and certainly not because it made sense.

Samuel did not choose David based on his looks, age, size or reputation. In fact, he didn’t even get a look at David when he saw all of Jesse’s sons. David wasn’t even there. Samuel knew God’s voice, and he knew when God said, “This is the one.”

We know God’s voice because we are His children. He speaks to us all the time. Even when we’re only half-listening, He speaks extra loudly lest we should have an excuse. We hear Him, but then we become nervous. We don’t want fulfilling the mission He’s assigned to us to be hard or painful, and we certainly don’t want it to take too long! But that is the opposite of what we consistently see in scripture. Those who had been given important tasks faced severe opposition. They had to be determined to accomplish what they set out to do, or it never would have come to pass.

God doesn’t want us to give up every time we come to a road block and say, “I guess it just wasn’t God’s will.” He has important stuff for us to do, and He can’t afford for us to be wimps. He needs us to be mighty warriors, and soldiers don’t get trained by having everything handed to them on a silver platter. We are His army in training, and we’re going to have to get dirty and bruised and tired and knocked down in order to get toughened up for the crucial battles.

God proves to us over and over through the difficulties we face that He is faithful and able to overcome every one of them. The sooner we give up trying to make obedience easier on ourselves, the sooner we are on our way to fulfilling every great plan He has for our lives. Time is getting short, so we need to make the most efficient use of it possible, and backing off when we know God has spoken, is not the way to accomplish that.”

So friends, now you know why I wanted to share this message with you.

Let's be quick to obey and then push through to the victory. When we are anchored in His love and who we are in Him, coupled with the power of the Holy Spirit, imagine what can be accomplished!! I want to be like that, one who obeys and who perseveres. God please help me!

And the Word of the Lord Came...

I was reading in the gospel of Luke the other morning, skipping along through the text. A few words especially caught my eye, but in my endeavour to read more than a few lines, you know, at least read a whole chapter, I just kept on going, thinking I’ll go back and look at that later. Then I said to myself, what am I doing? Isn’t this the whole point? If a few words jump out at me, aren’t I supposed to park there for a few minutes and really think about what I’m reading?

So I stop and go back to those words which were: “the word of the Lord came to John… and he went” (Luke 3:2, 3a) God had a specific purpose and plan for John (the Baptist), a very special purpose – he was to prepare the way of the Lord. How was John to know what to do next? Where was he to go? What was he supposed to do? When was he supposed to do it? The answer is right here in the text “the word of Lord came to John”. I wonder what the exact words were that John heard (that's just me being curious, I’m sure it’s a girl thing) but, in any event John knew the voice of the Lord and he obeyed the word that he heard.

Isn't it amazing and wonderful that God speaks to his people? WOW! And the fact that God has created us with the ability to understand what He says!! Again, it’s amazing! So often we just read over verses and chapters as if they were ordinary, in a ‘nothing remarkable there’ kind of way, as if we had just read “John got up at 6:30 and had breakfast” [Of course in John the Baptist’s case it would have been remarkable because he ate locusts and honey for breakfast! – sorry I digress]. No, there is something extraordinary here. The verse says “the word of the Lord came to John”. God spoke to John and told him what he was to do. And John understood God’s voice and did what He said to do.

Is it any different for us? Is God a respecter of persons? Friends, God has a special purpose and plan for your lives too, and for mine. He is speaking to you too, and to me. He speaks in many different ways – through scripture, another brother or sister, the preaching of His word, directly to us with His “still small voice”, an inner prompting, etc.

Life in Christ should not be boring. If it is, I’m sure it’s because we are not listening. Are we brave enough to say “Speak Lord, your servant is listening?” Let’s discover what He is saying. Things could get really exciting!

It's Time for a Walk

Lord, can we go for a walk? I just need to be with You. He takes my hand and we begin to walk down a country lane. There is a blue sky, a few puffy white clouds, a light refreshing breeze. We are walking… walking… as always when with Him, there is no need for a rush of words… walking… walking. Ahhh, I can breathe, it’s okay, everything will be okay. Walking… walking… oh Lord, You are my joy. The joy of my salvation is You! We stop. He directs my gaze out over a beautiful meadow, and yes, there they are – the daisies. I see their joyful dance in the summer breeze… I know the question before it is asked. “Have you picked any daisies lately?” My excuses for the negative reply I must give all come rushing to my mind, ready to spill out of my mouth, but I don’t utter a word. What are my excuses in the Presence of the One who knows me more intimately than anyone ever could, more than I know myself? Instead I simply say “Lord, you know that I have not picked as many as I should and therefore my present state of mind”. Why is it that even though I know what I need to do for my own good, that I neglect it?  I gain little comfort from the knowledge that this question has been asked by those much greater than me. At the same time I am reassured by the One who holds my hand, who walks with me and promises to never let me go. Yes Lord, You will lead me in the paths of life. Goodness and mercy will surely follow me. As I look up into His face I ask once again, “Lord give me a passion for your Word, that Word that is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path”.

Psalm 1

Blessed is the man who…

Delights in the law of the Lord

And in His law and he meditates day and night.

He shall be like a tree

Planted by the rivers of water

That brings forth its fruit in its season

Whose leaf also shall not wither

And whatever he does shall prosper.

And so, I ask you the question as well – have you been picking daisies lately? Looking into their depths? – you know that I am talking about reading scripture and spending some quiet time with the Lord while reading His word. Therein lies our strength and peace.

New beginnings...

I was looking at some old photographs this morning and came across this one –

Yes, I thought, one of my first trips out to “the Daisy Field”. Of course I didn’t know then what daisies would one day mean to me. (Guess it rather explains why I like cats too.) Looking at this picture of me when I was just about two years old made me think of innocence and discovery – a sense of childlike wonder.  Life’s circumstances often have a way of diminishing and sometimes destroying those things in our lives, don’t they.

Here we are at the beginning of a new year… day two. Often at the beginning of a new year we take stock of the year that has gone by, think about what the future holds and about what changes we need to make in our own lives in order to reach our idea of what success means.

I think for me, right now, I want to be like that little girl in the picture – on a journey of discovery, with a renewed sense of wonder. I’m so thankful that in Christ that is possible!  

Lamentations 3:22-23

The Lord’s lovingkindness indeed never cease,

For His compassions never fail.

They are new every morning;

Great is Your faithfulness.

As I consider the past year and look forward to the new I want to lay hold of those things that God has purposed for me. As Philipians 3:12 says: “Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me.”

In order to lay hold of the things God has purposed for me I need to keep walking in the Daisy Field (in God’s Word) and allow Him to transform and shape my life.

And so Lord, I am walking into 2012 holding Your hand, ready to discover how You can use me to be a blessing to others. Do in me Lord what needs to be done in order for that to become a reality.

The Gift

I love this time of year! There’s just something in the air. Last night I finished wrapping the Christmas gifts and now can hardly wait to be together with family to celebrate.  As I was wrapping, a memory from long ago came to mind – not that I remember actually but, I remember the story being related to me over the years, especially at this time of year. The story is about a little girl, two and half years old, who caused quite a stir one Christmas. Oh yeah, that little girl was me.  My parents, baby brother and I had been invited to a friend’s home for dinner a couple of days before Christmas. Apparently the dinner conversation at the table was so interesting that the adults did not notice that the little girl had slipped away and had not been seen for quite some time.  Hmmm… where could little Mary be?  My parents got up to look for me, followed by their friends. And then they found me… in the living room, by the Christmas tree sitting in a pile of wrapping paper and ribbon having a wonderful time. I had ripped the paper off of every present under the tree! I wasn’t at all interested in the gifts, but in all the shiny paper and ribbon. I cannot imagine how mortified my parents must have been! These friends had no idea now what presents were for whom, or who had given them what.  Of course, I was oblivious to all of that.

I’m wondering today how many of us overlook the Gift at Christmas. We get caught up in all the hustle and bustle, the glitter and glee so easily. Just as I, so many years ago sat amidst the shiny paper not aware of the things of more value – the gifts that had been enclosed in the paper, how many today overlook what is the most valuable gift of all? Christmas is the celebration of God’s gift to mankind, in the person of Jesus. The gospel of Luke recounts the angel’s message to the shepherds: “I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. And this will be the sign to you: You will find a Babe wrapped in swaddling cloths, lying in a manger.” And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying: “Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace, goodwill toward men!” John 3:16 tells us “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.”

So as we enjoy the giving and receiving of gifts, the wonderful family time, good food and celebration, let’s be mindful of the reason for the season – the coming of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus the Messiah. Let’s not forget the Gift.

Merry Christmas everyone !!!